In Japan, family is important, just as it is in most other parts of the world. Learning the Japanese words for family terms such as father, mother, brother, and sister, is vital for anyone studying the language. But in Japanese, learning family-related terms can be tricky.
In some cases, these terms may be different depending on what family you are discussing. In other cases, family-related terms are the same, regardless of whose family you are talking about. The tables below are organized in different ways depending on the context.
Basic Family Words
In Japanese—unlike in English—the terms for family relationships can differ according to whether you are talking about your own family to someone else or the other person's family. For ease of reference, the family term is listed in English in the first column. The second column lists term you would use when talking about your own family.
In that column, the English transliteration of the Japanese word is listed first. Clicking on the link brings up a sound file that will allow you to hear how the word is pronounced in Japanese. Click on the file a few times and mimic the pronunciation before moving on. The family term is written in Japanese letters, called kanji, just below the sound file. The third column repeats the pattern of the first, but for terms, you would use when talking about another person's family.
English Word | Talking about your family | Talking about another's family |
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father | chichi
父 |
otousan
お父さん |
mother | haha
母 |
okaasan
お母さん |
older brother | ani
兄 |
oniisan
お兄さん |
older sister | ane
姉 |
oneesan
お姉さん |
younger brother | otouto
弟 |
otoutosan
弟さん |
younger sister | imouto
妹 |
imoutosan
妹さん |
grandfather | sofu
祖父 |
ojiisan
おじいさん |
grandmother | sobo
祖母 |
obaasan
おばあさん |
uncle | oji
叔父/伯父 |
ojisan
おじさん |
aunt | oba
叔母/伯母 |
obasan
おばさん |
husband | otto
夫 |
goshujin
ご主人 |
wife | tsuma
妻 |
okusan
奥さん |
son | musuko
息子 |
musukosan
息子さん |
daughter | musume
娘 |
ojousan
お嬢さん |
General Family Terms
Some family words in Japanese are the same whether you are talking about your family or another person's family. These are general terms such as "family," "parents," and "siblings." The table provides the sound file in the first column with the term written in Japanese kanji directly below the term. The second column lists the word in English
Family-Related Expressions
It can also be helpful to learn common Japanese expressions and questions related to the family. The Japanese family-related phrase or question is provided in the first column. Click on the English transliteration of the phrase or question to bring up a sound file, just as in the previous sections. The phrase or question is written in Japanese letters directly below the sound file. The English translation is listed in the second column.
Useful Japanese Expressions | English Translation |
Kekkon shiteimasu ka.
結婚していますか。 |
Are you married? |
Kekkon shiteimasu.
結婚しています。 |
I am married. |
Dokushin desu
独身です。 |
I am single. |
Kyoudai ga imasu ka.
兄弟がいますか。 |
Do you have brothers and sisters? |
Kodomo ga imasu ka. 子供がいますか。 | Do you have children? |